Reclaiming Quiet: Cultivating a Life of Holy Attention
by Sarah Clarkson

My rating: 2 / 5
Genre: Christian non-fiction

Ostensibly, this book is about turning our attention from the world—news, social media, etc.—and quieting our minds to focus more on God. I personally did not find it very insightful in that respect, though, for a few reasons. One is that I think Clarkson and I have a slightly different definition of the word “quiet,” as I found that what she talked about was more a focus on God, even in busy, chaotic times (for example, she has 4 young children, so she’s in a season of life where she doesn’t always have the ability to make or find quiet time in her day). She did, however, talk a lot about not letting her phone take so much of her time and focus. It seems like this is one of her biggest issues in her current life, whereas it is not really what distracts me from taking time to focus on God. It bothered me when she’d mention that she will sometimes only have time to read one verse out of the Bible before getting on with her day, but she seems to make reading poetry or other books a priority. That seems pretty backwards to me, and it’s also a segue to another issue I had with this book—very little scripture is referenced, but a whole lot of other authors are mentioned and quoted. If Clarkson hasn’t found the quiet (i.e. focus) she is looking for, maybe it’s because she’s looking in the wrong places.

I also struggled a lot with Clarkson’s style of writing. It’s often poetic or deep/complex, making it fairly inaccessible to someone like me and thus very difficult to follow. The book is also far more about the author’s personal journey than about giving actionable ideas for the topic at hand. Most chapters started with a page or two of some time in her life when she was really struggling to connect with God or to be content with her life. I usually skimmed those pages to get to the “epiphany moment” that would turn her thinking around, often instigated by reading a poem, book, etc., in the hopes of gleaning something helpful for my own life. I’m not sure that really ever happened, and part of it was due to not fully understanding what she was saying.

I am certain that some of this comes down to the author’s life and background being vastly different from mine. She’s educated in theology and a heavy reader of classics and theological books. She’s from America but lives in England, and her husband is a vicar in an Anglican church. I am quite plain and uneducated by comparison and have been an Evangelical Christian all my life. The traditions and sacraments are a bit lost on me, and I really can’t say I have ever connected much with prayers written by someone else. In the end, then, I think it’s safe to say I was the complete wrong audience for this book. You might be the right audience, though, especially if you can appreciate the following sentence, taken from one of the prayers that the author includes at the end of each chapter of the book: “Help us to nourish our inmost selves, to keep airy and clean that room where our dreams dwell and our hope waits and the doors to all creation are in our grasp. Help us to trust the great stories, to live the great songs, to fight the dragons and keep the feasts, through Christ, the Great Knight of heaven of our yearning hearts, Amen.“

I received a free review copy from the publisher in exchange for my honest unedited feedback.

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